The word “that” cross is used because partnership in Jesus’ sufferings is that cross that no one wants to carry. While Paul is in prison, he says in Phillipians 3:10 (TPT): “And I continually long to know the wonders of Jesus and to experience the overflowing power of his resurrection working in me. I will be one with him in his sufferings and become like him in his death.” Who wants to partner in Christ’s sufferings? Denise shares that carrying the cross includes some suffering, some sacrifice. The part of knowing Him and being in Him and not understanding why things are happening, but still choosing to trust Him; His timings, His ways and His purpose for your life to live in you and through you.